Decide

Since the lock-down began, I’ve suddenly had a lot less time to work on my projects. The funny thing is… I’ve somehow managed to still find time to work on my projects! I’ve had to make a lot of tough choices in order to stay productive. It’s heart-breaking work to have to say ‘no’ to comfortable routines and people we care about, but it helps you to understand in your heart what you need to continue saying yes to, no matter what. The world is changing on micro and macro levels all at once. Even when things “go back to normal” we’re only kidding ourselves if we believe that anything will ever be like it was. I’ve been learning important things about myself during these past few months. Like the other day when a distracted driver almost ran me over in the crosswalk. I learned two things in that one moment. #1, I learned that my crisis response is to freeze, not fight or flight. #2, I learned that I had been taking for granted that a few lines drawn on the street could grant me safety. They don’t. In these times we have to be extra vigilant. We have to observe. We have to look both ways, again and again, even when the lights are green and the little walkie man is flashing. It’s okay to freeze, but at some point we need to start moving again. But when we do, we have to remember that the world has changed, that we have all changed. There will be some things we will miss. But there will be other things that we can rebuild to be better than they were. We have to decide to hold on to that hope.

Bonnie

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3 thoughts on “Decide

  1. Your illustrations just keep getting better and better. You’ve really honed in on warm, gentle style of your own. And on learning something about yourself; I had a similar experience. I was home alone at night and thought I heard someone in the house. Instead of grabbing a baseball bat and charging, like I always pictured myself doing, I just froze in fear. Thank goodness the house was empty! Love you. Happy Mother’s Day!

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  2. Reading this quite some time after you told me about the incident, I am again so glad you were not hit. We think we live in a safe area but that does not account for the crazy and careless people who made the same choice as we did.

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